in 157)
The reasons for depression are not always clear-cut. Although some depressed, even suicidal
teenagers come from extremely troubled backgrounds with a lifetime of difficulties at home and at school,
the vast majority of depressed teens are not without resources, support, or love. They simply find, for a
variety of reasons, that they’re feeling overwhelmed by a sensation of hopelessness and helplessness. It is
imperative to realize that depression can happen to teenagers, even those who have everything going for
them. It can happen to the best and brightest of young people. (McCoy 27)
It’s hard to detect depression in teens because it’s a developmental stage characterized by
considerable anger and withdrawal. Adolescents don’t necessarily look sad and depressed and its normal for
teens to have mood swings but within limits. A depressed teen may cry for help indirectly through
troublesome, even destructive behavior and through physical symptoms. For a teenager to admit that he or
she needs help feels like regressing back to childhood. To be a teen means to externalize feelings and deal
with the world through action. (Arbetter 6)
Depression ranks second only to advanced heart disease in exacting a physical toll, measured by
days in bed and body pain. It’s common for people with depressive disorders to complain about recurring
headaches, backaches, chronic fatigue, and insomnia. Being sick can be a binding thing that keeps the
teenager tied to parents, if the illness is the only time the teen receives attention and love from their parents.
(Dowling 127) The body may signal what the mind is saying through physical symptoms. The body
expresses feelings and conflicts that the teenager is unable to verbalize. Physical ills are often viewed with
more importance than emotional pain by parents, teachers, or even the teens themselves. (Papolos 36) “It’s
much easier for adolescents to ask for medical care than for psychological help. They often have a great
fear of being crazy or of being thought to be crazy.” (McCoy 209) Another serious medical problem that is
affecting more and more teens is an eating disor!
der. An eating disorder often represents a teenager’s attempt to gain some control by engaging in a
behavior which can not be regulated by another person. One-third to one-half of patients with eating
disorders have a major depressive illness at the same time. (Papolos 72)
More than one million teens, most under the age of sixteen, run away from home every year.
They are neither adventurous nor rebellious adolescents, but teens tested and troubled by life’s
circumstances. A young girl at a shelter for teenage runaways tries to explain why she has run away from
home four times in the past two months. Drawing her blanket around her like a cocoon, the fourteen-year -
old quietly stares at the floor. “I’m no good to anyone, I get upset and fuss at home and it causes trouble for
everyone. I had to run away to save my parent’s marriage.” Unfortunately, this story is not at all unusual.
(McCoy 22) Of the 1.2 million teen runaways in the United States, an estimated 300,000 have little hope
or chance of returning home. They often feel things are hopeless and that their parents would never
understand.
Drug use is on the rise among teens as young as thirteen. According to the National Council on
Alcoholism and Drug Dependence, about 4% of high school seniors use alcohol daily, while 92% have
tried it. Millions of teens have had adverse experiences caused by excessive drinking. (Elkind 203)
Researchers have found that depressed teens are at particularly high risk for drug and alcohol abuse. Abuse
of drugs, alcohol, or other substances are often used to assuage depression. Studies have found that when
depressed patients were given treatment, alcohol and drug intake diminished as well. Substance abuse is
seen as both a symptom and a cause of depression. (Papolos 66)
There is more sexual activity among teenagers today than at any other time in our history. By the
time they leave high school, some 90% of seniors are no longer virgins. Sexually transmitted diseases
among teenagers have reached epidemic proportions. Eight million young people each year are infected
with a sexually transmitted disease. Every thirty seconds, another U.S. teenager is infected. (Elkind 71)
Sexual acting-out , which can not only be life-changing, but also life-threatening in this age of AIDS, can
become an antidote to the loneliness and isolation many teenagers feel. Sexual activity is often used as an
attempt to deal with feelings of depression, to increase self-esteem by feeling wanted and to achieve
intimacy. (McCoy 21)
Approximately 3,000 teenage girls in the United States will get pregnant today. An estimated 3
million teenage girls become pregnant each year. Beth is a shy, quiet eighth-grader who is expecting a
baby in two months. Beth admits her pregnancy was intentional and she plans to keep her baby “because
then I’ll have someone of my own who will love me for sure. I won’t be alone anymore.” ” This illusion of
unconditional love, coupled with a lack of insight into the unrelenting demands that the complete
dependence of an infant brings leads a number of girls to seek pregnancy.” Some teens see parenthood as
a way to recapture the joy of childhood they are losing, a way to be loved and important to someone else, or
as an antidote to depression. (McCoy 81-82)
“Suicide among teenagers has skyrocketed 200% in the last decade. If we were talking about
mononucleosis or meningitis we’d call this an epidemic.” (Solin 155) Suicide has become the second
leading cause of death among older teenagers. Adolescents are particularly at risk for suicide attempts
because they progress through a variety of rapid developmental stages. The seriously depressed teen may
often have a sense of hopelessness. Many teens are too immobilized by depression to see any alternatives
or to take any positive steps toward change. (Salmans 40) ” All too often depressed teenagers don’t have the
experience to know that time heals, that there is always hope. They don’t realize that they can survive a
crisis and perhaps even learn from it.” Life is often seen in absolutes which intensifies any crisis. (McCoy
64)
The destructive potential of serious teenage depression can have many long-lasting aftereffects.
Having and keeping a baby, getting into trouble with the law, sustaining a serious injury as the result of
risk-taking behavior or stunting one’s emotional growth by anesthetizing painful feelings with drugs or
alcohol can have a great impact on one’s future. It can prevent a young adult from having a full, healthy,
and productive life or make it considerably more difficult to do so. Depression is a growing problem
amongst today’s teenagers. Depression brings with it many problems that can be self-destructive. If a
teenager has the benefit of early intervention and help in coping with his or her depression, however, the
life script can be quite different. (McCoy 66-67)
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